I recently found that one of my good friends from high school, who was in my wedding, deleted me from Facebook as a friend. I know this may seem petty, but honestly...it still hurts a little.
This friend is one of those people who often love to evaluate, criticize, offer opinions/solutions, and have a sense of superiority.
This is her reality -
-You've become such an ugly person inside
-You have a shit ass, low paying job as a child counselor (this does not allow you to know everything)
-Your husband is a low paid, weed smoking loser
-Your not perfect
-I'm sorry I'm in a better place and happier than you are
Yes, I know the above is harsh...but it's what I feel.
One reason I think she deleted me was because I didn't reach out as aggressively to one of our mutual friends when her engagement got called off. I recognize that would be tough, and awful...Not easy to go through. However, I wasn't truly sure how to approach the situation. I didn't want to get into a cluster of negative conversations that didn't allow her to gain strength or prospective. Also, I kind of saw him as loser, so I was glad to see the marriage didn't happen. I think she liked the idea of being married...but honestly, he couldn't buy a car on his own...purchased gamer-high ticket items instead of paying bills...He needed to get his shit in order before he became a equal team member in that union.
But it's funny, the friend who decided to delete me..why? Because I was traveling, having fun, and living life? While you struggle to live and wonder if you made the right decisions...Brilliant.
This friend is one of those people who often love to evaluate, criticize, offer opinions/solutions, and have a sense of superiority.
This is her reality -
-You've become such an ugly person inside
-You have a shit ass, low paying job as a child counselor (this does not allow you to know everything)
-Your husband is a low paid, weed smoking loser
-Your not perfect
-I'm sorry I'm in a better place and happier than you are
Yes, I know the above is harsh...but it's what I feel.
One reason I think she deleted me was because I didn't reach out as aggressively to one of our mutual friends when her engagement got called off. I recognize that would be tough, and awful...Not easy to go through. However, I wasn't truly sure how to approach the situation. I didn't want to get into a cluster of negative conversations that didn't allow her to gain strength or prospective. Also, I kind of saw him as loser, so I was glad to see the marriage didn't happen. I think she liked the idea of being married...but honestly, he couldn't buy a car on his own...purchased gamer-high ticket items instead of paying bills...He needed to get his shit in order before he became a equal team member in that union.
But it's funny, the friend who decided to delete me..why? Because I was traveling, having fun, and living life? While you struggle to live and wonder if you made the right decisions...Brilliant.
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